So I'm very self conscious at the gym because I notice everyone else's flaccid penis. I don't have a small erect dick....I'd say 6" range but when its flaccid its a shriveled up little guy. Its almost always looking small when not erect. Does a none flaccid dick not grow that much? I feel embarrassed in the gym and fell like my confidence is very low because of this. I try to stretch it out before I take the towel off just to save face . Is there a way to make it hang better?

 

Is that really important? Has anyone said anything to you? Be yourself, it doesn’t matter what others think.

 

No but I see everyone else and am very self conscious but I know when I'm hard its what think at least average. Its in my own head I guess but....its it the same in the women's locker room? Do you feel people judge?

 

Maybe its a male thing...to be a man kind of thing...not sure but I feel inferior for sure

 

Thanks for the reply !

 

I’ve never thought about it. I go to the gym every morning. There are plenty of women in the locker room but I’ve never wondered or cared what they think of me. I’m happy with myself so that’s important. I can understand why some get concerned, the trick is to be happy with yourself.

 

A shower or a grower?
I like a grower, love the feel of a cock getting big in my mouth. It's what you have when you need it.

 

yeah man u din't want to be hard in the shower lol. so it's cool i go to the gym to and see big ones small ones and i don't care what size u are, as long as u make ur gf or wife happy at home.

 

You need a tshirt that reads "My real dick is bigger than this."

I've spent a lot of time in locker rooms, and one thing I know for certain, the cocks one sees in porn videos are not representative of the general population.

If you are really self conscious, you would right at home at my current health club. A naked cock in the men's locker room is a rare sight. I've never seen such a bunch of shyboys. A man headed to the shower will put a towel around his waist before taking off his shorts. When he comes back, the process is reversed.

Seriously, no one cares about your cock, except the guy who asks if you'd like to come to his place for the shower.

 

If you're that self conscious, work out at home. Nothing to be ashamed about if your cock gets hard during your exercises.

 

I guess how you feel about the way your dick looks in the locker room should be dependent on what your plans are. Just getting changed with no interest in what anyone thinks or interest in their cocks? Feel free to take a cold shower. Hoping for more? Warm water, spend some time loosening your cock up before you're done, but don't get too hard (the chub or leather stage). Straight up cruising to fuck? Either stroke till you're throbbing or just kneel in the showers and wait, depending on what role you're planning to play. (Note: only do that last one if you're super sure you're in a cruising spot, not your neighborhood country club or planet fitness or military barracks)

 

I don't think you're going to the gym for the same reason most people are.
I can spend an hour or so in the gym, go into the locker room, get undressed, take a shower, dry off, get dressed and leave. ll the while not spending one second wondering about what other guys think of my cock.

 

Cock size is the same as money. For both:
There are plenty of guys that have more than you do.
There are plenty of guys that have less than you do.
That's true for us all. Why worry?

 

Why are men so stuck up on the size of their penis, from my perspective and experience the more above average a guy has the less he is inclined to use this extra length to any advantage. The man that rocks my world does not have a large penis, in fact when he is not erect its shriveled up within his scrotum, looks like the head of a turtle when its pushed back. He once mentioned to me that when he was in high school and college he would usually get some flack from the "larger"men, it never bothered him because he knew from an early age the ONLY people that really mattered when it came to judging ones penis, was their sexual partner.

 

Oh my. Why are men stuck up on the size of their penis? I mean, what's their problem?

Stuff like this pic doesn't help. It's making the rounds of facebook, because here we have buffed gym rat body without a porn star cock. So far, all my facebook friends that shared this pic are women. They think it's funny, but this is basically body shaming.

All the comforting sermons about "it's not what you have, but how you use it", don't do much good after a woman has made fun of your cock. Just saying.

 

@Trevor J why are you even checking out their prick? You're straight, so you say? Keep eye contact at all times, and their eyes aren't in their balls.

You feel embarrassed? You ever see a single jellybean in an Easter Basket? That's me

 

"All the comforting sermons about "it's not what you have, but how you use it", don't do much good after a woman has made fun of your cock. Just saying."

A man that projects confidence is very attractive and stimulating, If a woman is making fun of your cock and it affects you then she wins. The proper response would have been "....never had a complaint..." put it back in your pants and simply walk away, you win. Find another woman who's personality isn't in the cunt column.

 

You're a grower then, which is really hot. Feeling a cock grow from small to big and hard in my mouth or while I'm playing with it is a big turn on.