thanks to everyone for their opinions !

i am by no means a wealthy man so i know if it happens it wont be for the money !

i dont socialise much anymore so im finding it difficult to meet such girls.

im not into a relationship either i just want sex no long term shit.

was thinking about paying for it as ive seen some very attractive girls on varius escort sites etc should i go down that road ??

 

im 28 and ever since i was 14 i have craved for older man

 

here's my side...I'm 25 now, but when I was 20 I had a short-lasting thing with a 38yo woman..one of the best sex experiences ever! ..would love to some day have another experience like that with a woman over 50..
I have no problem with old/young, the only thing is that she/he better not be too young, other than that, go for it.. you should never pay for sex and never think less of yourself, cause there will always be someone who looks better than you, just enjoy the moments while you can.. and as a guy, I would say there are less fuckable men over 50 than there are women.. but there is still a pretty big number of young ladies who are looking for an older man, given the fact that you don't look like Danny DeVito...

in short - if you find a younger person for sex, without having to buy him/her a car and other fancy stuff, you should go for it..and have fun!

 

I am 44 now, but when I was 40, the opportunity arose. I was out on the town alone, and this 19 year old girl asked to join me cause she got ditched by her friends. She was a great to talk too, and we went to a couple other bars to go find her so called friends. When I was about to call it a night , she asked to go with me. Feeling a bit uneasy about it, I agreed. After a couple drinks, she was asking if I thought she was pretty, and if she was sexy. I told her that she was all that and more, but I was old enough to be her dad. She told me that all the guys her age only thing about themselves, and really need to feel desired. The long and the short of it is ,I felt like a dream come true, and would definitely do it again if opportunity permits.
So my advice is to go for it if you get the opportunity. :roll:

 

If wishes were horses beggars would ride.

If someone young and pretty smiles at you, smile back. Feel flattered. Don't get delusions of grandeur. Don't make a fool of yourself. There's no fool like an old fool.

 

Good point!!!

+ 1 !!!

I have a friend, a very few years younger than me - I know that he used to cheat a lot (and his wife knows and accepts!!! )
Our dialogue, sometimes, jokingly:
"So, did you hook up any chick lately?"...
"No! Why?!? Ovid, don't you know that, at this age, what they need is also what we need?!?"
TRANSLATION: He means that we need hard fucking dicks!

 

no, your feelings are normal. i said in the past, i wasn't interested in girls in
this age group. BUT NOW, i am having second thoughts. try working
around females in this age group, where a few of them like considering you
there " best friend/buddy ".

i know, work,text, & talk on the phone, with a 19 y.o.f. i work with from
time to time. same goes, with a 18 y.o.f. too. on the 1st of OCT., me and
a few co-workers, are taking the 18 y.o. out for her birthday to celebrate.


i can say, you guys don't know ( or might know ), what's like for a petite,
beautiful, 18 & 19 y.o., to come up and hug you from time to time. :excited:

NO WAY IN HELL, you could get that, from just a random young girl on
the streets, or your neighbors child, a co-workers, or any girl in your
neighborhood or church.

not that, i would want that to happen. BUT, i am pretty sure, alot of guys
to OLDER MEN, would love for a young girl to do that to them.

 

I have always loved flirting with men older than I was, It's fun and harmless.

BUT

Any boyfriend I've ever had, was with someone in my own age bracket (5 years +/-). There is more to a relationship than just fucking. I want to be able to talk to my partner. If we are at different stages in life, there are no commonalities with which to converse about.

As for you men who like young girls, you're missing out on a lot of experienced women who know/ and want to rock your worlds!

 

Cant agree more with you N.E. Woman. You are so right with the different stages in life. I think most men who like young girls it is more of an ego boost for them. I am 45 and would definitely have very little to converse about with a 20 year old!!

Now for fantasy hell yes!!!

 

I'm in contact with 2 females via a dating site at the moment one has just turned 19 the other is 23 both r very keen to meet for NSA sex. But I'm not sure if it's just a wind up?

We have chatted (via e-mail) and they sound plausible but I have a feeling something's not right ??

 

Don't know why that would be a problem.
I'm totally into older guys.
Someone has a fetish for black men, someone for uncut cocks, i have a fetish on older men.
Doesn't really make much of a difference, it's really how it makes you feel.

 

have the 19 y.o. produce some form of I.D..

if she does look young, chances are she might be. i read a case like this
in the news years ago. a very young underage lady, met a guy in the bar
had drinks, had sex too.

when the guy found out her real age, ( whatever that was ) he left her
alone. the girl retaliated and called the police on the guy. the police
arrested the guy for STATUTORY RAPE and did time.

he tried to explain to the police what had occurred. the police wasn't
buying his story, and arrested him. the girl in the meanwhile, got off
SCOTT FREE.

you can't tell these days. you can have a phony license, and it would
be hard to tell back in the day. now, technology can still fool a person
too.

make sure, your not set up to be ROBBED of cash, jewelry, and account.
try to set it up, in a motel/hotel, with an ajoining room. that way, you can
hell for help and someone can call the police and rush in such as a
friend of yours.

WORSE, it could be an online sting, to catch people for soliciting sex.
you can be arrested and be labeled as a SEX OFFENDER " FOR LIFE ".
some states, have this law in place. all just for wanting to have sex.
the same goes, with soliciting sex, on the streets too.

 

I've seen many pictures of both girls and have been on webcam with the oldest.

Everything you mention about safety has went through my mind and I'm gonna play this one ultra cautious.

The 19 year old girl has hinted at a meet so should I suggest we meet somewhere in public first so that I know she is for real ??

 

I would be very cautious with these girls.

How long have you been chatting? How much information they give is verifiable?

Use your brain and gut feelings. You don't want to be set up in any fashion.

 

Spammer reported. Bye bye!

 

ALWAYS MEET IN PUBLIC.

choose a restaurant, on a main strip with lots of people around.
also, try to position yourself near a window, to get a good look of
anyone coming and going. also, this lets you see the tag number too.

even if, it's a rental, it can be traced back to the renter, regardless
how they paid for it. usually, they will pick a hotel/motel nearby.
nothing too expensive, unless they live lavishly.

restaurants, hotels/motels, have surveilance cameras in them and
around them too. plus, they can see which way they go. even on foot.

if they choose to meet in private, that's a RED FLAG, and is a NO GO.

be smart, and think with your OTHER HEAD, between your ears.

 

how right you are.

 

Someone who claims to be a beautiful nineteen year old who wants an older man to teach her about sex may be a criminal gang who knock you out, and steal your wallet, cash, credit cards, the key to your car and your car. They might even leave you naked in your hotel room.

 

Oh so you mean you're normal?

My uncle is your age and bangs young (legal) chicks all the time. All part of the family charm.

 

Hey, if the dick gets hard use it.

I am an older dude and bang young dudes all the time and never wonder if its right or wrong. It just is.